F**K Cancer!

I am very saddened to learn that someone I admired growing up and met for the first time a couple of months ago, Mr. Robi Draco Rosa's cancer has returned.  This is heartbreaking news and I am praying for him and his family.  Feel free to read the article from People en Espanol.  I ask of you to send out your prayers & then some!

Draco Rosa enfrenta nueva batalla contra el cáncer

Are You My Stalker?

Why is it that some people feel the need to search out former friends to find out what they're up to?

In my case, when I moved from Los Angeles to be closer to my family, I left behind a group of friends who were beyond toxic.  That was four years ago and I'm still being watched any way they can.  I just don't get it.  As my friend T says, "Find a new hobby!"  This one "friend" in particular specifically said she would never want to be my friend again.  OK, that's great.  Now MOVE ON!

An Encounter with Robi Draco Rosa

Last night I was lucky enough to meet Robi Rosa, someone whom I've adored since I was a child.  It was only a brief encounter but he was a total sweetheart and I feel blessed to have crossed paths with him.  Thank you, Robi, for being so sweet.

BART Strike - Total B.S.

Here's my opinion, and I do have one!

All those BART workers should get their a$$es fired like Reagan did to the air traffic controllers in the 80s. So sick and tired of them bitching about their jobs. You're lucky you have a job at all - says a girl who's been officially unemployed for 2 years. Get with the program!

Iyanla Fix MY Life... Please

I am so freakin' angry right now that my sister is blowing the opportunity of a lifetime to get help for our family from the one and only Ms. Iyanla Vanzant because her husband doesn't want her to do it.  What a waste!

Bullying Is Unacceptable

I am absolutely dumbfounded at the events of yesterday.  To involve yourself in another family's affairs is ridiculous and inexcusable.  No matter what is happening to a friend, it is never my place to interject myself into their familial relationships - unless it involves protecting them from physical harm.  In this case, I was bullied by my sister's so-called friend.  The woman needs to get a life and step out of mine.

I will not tolerate emotional abuse from anyone.  I will not tolerate harassment by Facebook, text, phone calls or emails.  What's worse is that by disrespecting me, she is in turn disrespecting my entire family with her antics.  Abuse is abuse - there is no other name for it.  Stay away from my family!!!

Signs of An Abusive Relationship

Watching people I love sit in pure denial hurts me to the core.  Following are signs of domestic abuse as taken from HelpGuide.org.  I encourage you, if you experience any of these signs, please reflect on your situation and talk to someone outside of your relationship.  You can ALWAYS count on your family.

Signs of an abusive relationship

There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner—constantly watching what you say and do in order to avoid a blow-up—chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive. Other signs that you may be in an abusive relationship include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.

To determine whether your relationship is abusive, answer the questions below. The more “yes” answers, the more likely it is that you’re in an abusive relationship.

SIGNS THAT YOU’RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
Your Inner Thoughts and Feelings	Your Partner’s Belittling Behavior
Do you: feel afraid of your partner much of the time?	Does your partner: humiliate or yell at you?
avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?	criticize you and put you down?
feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner?	treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?
believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?	ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
wonder if you’re the one who is crazy?	blame you for their own abusive behavior?
feel emotionally numb or helpless?	see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?
Your Partner’s Violent Behavior or Threats	Your Partner’s Controlling Behavior
Does your partner: have a bad and unpredictable temper?	Does your partner: act excessively jealous and possessive?
hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?	control where you go or what you do?
threaten to take your children away or harm them?	keep you from seeing your friends or family?
threaten to commit suicide if you leave?	limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
force you to have sex?	limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
destroy your belongings?	constantly check up on you?

Mr. Personality - My Boy

Mr. Ozzy Osbourne during his daily adventures

My boy talking to Grandpa

Him & his crazy mama chasing me in the pool

P2 Dream Lockets - Making Your Dreams Come True

Ask.  Believe.  Receive.

P2 Dream Lockets is a concept derived from the popular floating charm lockets.  P2 developed the idea while creating her vision or “dream” board.  If you understand anything about “The Secret” and the law of attraction, you know that what you put out into the universe comes back to you.  In addition to creating a vision board with all your hopes and aspirations, you can now put your dreams out into the universe by choosing charms that represent who you are, what you love and what you want from life.  Place the charms into a beautiful, stainless steel locket of your choice and wear it everyday to remind yourself and the universe of your desires.  Watch your dreams turn into reality!

Everything is possible.

P2 Dream Locket Store on eBay

Tweet from Richard Marx - How Cool Is That?

Being a child from the 80s, I was super stoked to get two separate tweet responses from the one and only Richard Marx.  The first was in response to my tweet regarding "Richard Marx's ass."  Sorry but sometimes you just have to be there to understand.  See photo anyway:

The second tweet was after I sent him a photo of my two concert tickets from 1988 & 1999.  Oh how I loved me some Richard Marx.

Richard Marx made my day.  If you have a Twitter account, you should definitely follow him at @richardmarx.  He's also one of the funniest people I see on there.

Now Selling: Floating Charm Lockets

I now have floating charm lockets available for purchase.  Here's a sample.

Let me know if you're interested.

Here are a few more:

Some of the charms I'll have available:

P2 Dream Lockets is a concept derived from the popular floating charm lockets.  P2 developed the idea while creating her vision or “dream” board.  If you understand anything about “The Secret” and the law of attraction, you know that what you put out into the universe comes back to you.  In addition to creating a vision board with all your hopes and aspirations, you can now put your dreams out into the universe by choosing charms that represent who you are, what you love and what you want from life.  Place the charms into a beautiful, stainless steel locket of your choice and wear it everyday to remind yourself and the universe of your desires.  Watch your dreams turn into reality!

Ask.  Believe.  Receive.

Everything is possible.

Inspire A Kid: Help Fund The Great Debate

After years of extreme hard work and dedication to a project near and dear to my heart, my good friend/brother/colleague, Ignacio Peña, has launched a crowd-funding page (a la Kickstarter.com) for El Gran Debate del Planeta Tierra (The Great Planet Earth Debate).  EGDPT has been in the works for years with its intricate and costly production.  If you have even $5.00 to give to this amazing project that is meant to reach children throughout Puerto Rico and across the U.S. as a teaching tool for the arts and sciences, we would be most thankful for your support.  Please tell everyone you know.  We need your help!

Do your part and help our kids.  Visit El Gran Debate.

Thanks for your support!

All my love & gratitude,

Muzikgirl

Mi Viejo Amigo Santos

Gotta laugh that I can't get away from my old friend Mr. Carlos Santos.  His Metro PCS commercial is all over my TV from The Grammy Awards to the new hit show The Following to every day during Dr. Phil.  Love it!!!

While you're at it, check out his Rejected Anti-bullying PSA below.  Pretty damn hilarious!

The Truth About Love

This is what happens when you see P!nk VIP!

The Hives

The MC "Clown" of the night - hosting "The Truth About Love" game show

P!nk!!!!